Sometimes I wondering if I put too much thought and effort into how I look. Here I am getting my hair done, and for what? So that my husband can love me more? So I don’t embarrass my children at the playground? Or maybe it so that I can feel prettier standing next to the woman beside me?
As a mother I always feel like you have to look your best because you no longer have to look good for you, the way people see you also judges how they see your children. If your a slob they assume your children’s are slob. They end up feeling sorry for the spawn of the woman who can’t come her hair.
I don’t want to be that woman, but I hate the thought of having to look perfect all the time to impress everyone.
There’s got to be a middle ground.